Elizabeth Ann Gay

Elizabeth “Ann” Gay was born on March 20, 1934, to Jack and Jimmie Love in Magnolia, Arkansas. She passed peacefully in the early morning hours of September 19, 2025, in Casper, Wyoming, surrounded by her loving family. Though she battled dementia in her later years, Ann would proudly tell you she remained sharp, active, and continued doing the things she loved until the very end.

Ann is preceded in death by her parents and her beloved husband, Raymond. She is survived by her daughter, Linda (Gary) Einer; granddaughters, Lindsay (Greg) O’Dell and Abby Einer; and great-granddaughter, Audree. She is also survived by her stepchildren, Jim Gay and Liz Hill; their children, Bill Smith (Liz) and Michael Gay (Jim); and grandchildren, Luca and Ella (Michael).

Ann was a very dedicated worker throughout her life and spent most of her career as an Administrative Assistant, a role in which she truly excelled. Her dedication and professionalism earned her the prestigious Certified Professional Secretary designation later in her career.

She met her husband Raymond at the car dealership where they both worked—she as a secretary, he as a car salesman. Ann and Raymond welcomed their daughter, Linda, in 1957, and from that moment on, Ann poured her heart into being a devoted mother. Later in life, she embraced her role as a proud grandmother and great-grandmother with even more joy. Her granddaughters, Lindsay and Abby, were the apple of her eye—until her great-granddaughter Audree came along and stole the show. From then on, Audree became the light of her life, bringing endless joy and laughter into her days. Together, they shared tea parties, heartfelt chats, and the occasional repeated conversation—common with dementia—which Audree would playfully remind her, “You just told me that”. Their bond was filled with love, laughter, and a whole lot of storytelling on repeat.

A true Southern woman, Ann lived in many places throughout Arkansas, Texas, Tennessee, and Oklahoma before moving to Casper, Wyoming, in 2001 to be closer to her daughter and granddaughters. Her generosity and warmth left a lasting impression on everyone she met. Friends of her daughter and granddaughters quickly grew to love her, and she was affectionately known and adored by many.

Ann’s love language was gifting. She often showered her family with presents, especially during Christmas and birthdays. Her grandchildren fondly remember her packing entire suitcases full of gifts when visiting Wyoming and her enthusiastic “love pats” on their heads and legs. She gave everything she had to those around her, always putting others first.

She was an avid reader, especially enjoying books by James Patterson and C.J. Box. Ann was also a talented cook, passing down her culinary skills to her daughter. Her monkey bread and ciabatta bread were family favorites and are remembered with love.

Ann had a deep affection for animals and cherished her dogs—Peaches, Callie, and Riley. In her final years in assisted living, she was always thrilled when family brought their dogs to visit. She never failed to have treats on hand, and if she happened to run out, she was visibly agitated not to have something special to offer them.

A proud Christian, Ann was a member of Second Baptist Church in Houston, Texas, where she joyfully served in the choir. Her family will always remember her confident singing voice during church services, a reflection of her deep faith and love of Jesus Christ.

Ann was known for her spirited personality and candid humor. She often spoke her mind, creating cherished memories and laughter. Her final words, humorously mumbled to her granddaughter Abby—“Oh shit, you people for Pete’s sake”—perfectly captured her feisty spirit. Another humorous family memory was one Christmas, she labeled gifts with numbers instead of names and created a “cheat sheet” to identify them—but the system quickly failed her, and the family ended up opening her many presents at random.

Having spent most of her life in the South, Ann took great pride in manners and etiquette, which she proudly passed onto her daughter and granddaughters. This made her shocked and disgruntled reaction to Abby’s first tattoo all the more memorable—a moment the family still jokes about today. Another favorite family story involves her reaction to overhearing a game of Cards Against Humanity after Christmas dinner—her expression of disappointment is forever etched in their memories.

Despite life’s ups and downs, Ann remained joyful and grateful, always making the most of every situation, a trait her family always admired in her. In her final years, despite being in senior care, she was one of the happiest people, and nurses often commented on her cheerful demeanor, noting that she was a joyful resident and a pleasure to care for.

The world has lost a truly wonderful woman in Ann—one whose warmth, humor, and generosity touched everyone she met. Though her absence leaves a deep void in the hearts of those who loved her, we find comfort in knowing that heaven has gained a beautiful soul. Her legacy will live on through her family and all who had the joy of knowing her.

In lieu of flowers, Ann would appreciate donations to your local animal shelter or to her granddaughter, Lindsay’s, favorite pet rescue in Casper, Fur Pet’s Sake Pet Center, in her honor.